Sunday, April 11, 2010
Who says a mini skirt is no longer appropriate?
How do you know when styles and trends are no longer appropriate for you? Is there a magic number or age to tell you when to purge that mini skirt? What does the term “age appropriate mean, anyways? With the new philosophy of “50” being the new “40”—can’t you pretty much wear whatever you want?
The guidelines for age appropriate dressing are no longer so clean cut. It’s more difficult to decide what is appropriate-but on the flip side—this means there are more style options. What you wear is a matter of personal choice; however you still need to be careful not to dress too young or too trendy—or you will look like you are trying too hard.
More and more women want to dress stylish and look their best--no matter their age. One of the best ways to up-date your look is to inventory your wardrobe and remove old dated styles (like tapered pants with pleats). When you wear outdated styles it will certainly make you look older, so removing “old” styles from your wardrobe will update YOU.
Women want to wear clothes they like, and feel confident in. A majority of women do not want to dress like their sixteen-year-old and they know they shouldn’t--thank goodness! On the other side of the coin, women who are over forty are fearful of dressing like their mature mothers! Where is the stylish middle ground between dressing too young and looking matronly?
Let’s examine ourselves, our style and our closet with the tips below. This will help you negotiate the trends in the stores and still be age appropriate as well:
__How current is your hairstyle? (Your hair is a critical part of your overall look) Are you still stuck in a style moment that has past? Hairstyles are like cars—they may still work, but you must go in for a regular tune-up! Learn modern techniques of hair care and at least “tweak” the style you have. A good hairstylist to recommend a new hair style and color if you are stuck in a rut.
__Remember there are no written rules: always wear clothes that you feel confident in.
__You can’t go wrong with a tailored blazer, some darker jeans and cute shoes you really like! This combination always looks good—no matter your age!
__Realize that young twenty year olds DO have more style choices.
__Conservative clothes can be alluring.
__Women that put more effort into their appearance are more self-confident.
__Dressing like your teenage daughter makes you appear desperate and older! Embrace your age—younger gals will envy you—and your confidence!
__The concept of aging is constantly being re-defined and you should continually re-define your wardrobe too!
__Honestly figure out what no longer suits you and find out what does. Do you have a great looking neckline, calves, arms, or earlobes? Whatever it is, show it off!
__Really nice shoes and a handbag, always make you look first-rate. Splurge, if you can on one item that makes you feel fabulous!
__Try MissusSmartyPants favorite style tip: dress monochromatic. It is always slimming and all you need is add a funky necklace or other unique accessory as a focal point!
__Go easy on a trend. Be careful not to overdue a good thing. Only one piece denim, or if going boho chic, don’t wear the peasant skirt and top, sparkly slip-on shoes and big earrings! Just a touch of a trend is all you need!
__Accept that some styles are just not right for your body type. Find the right fit for your shape and you’ll feel like a million bucks!!
See, it’s really not that hard to dress well--no matter your age.
Love, Leslie aka MissusSmartyPants
Get your new style started at: http://www.missussmartypants.com/
MSP's Weekly Style Mission by mspsmartypants featuring lace up heeled boots ATM by Anthony Thomas Melillo brown top intermixonline.com...
I believe most women have good common sense. However, sometimes even the most wonderful woman can be lead astray by a style she thinks look...
It's too thick or too thin, it's too curly or as straight as can be... Yes. It's your hair we are talking about and its not alwa...
Dear Leslie, I need help with accessories. Since you always seem to wear just the right accessories and just the right amount I know ...